Original thread was started over in newcomers but I am always over here now, so I'll just post here. The original thread is in the signature though.
This weekend pretty good, was pretty good at GAL. Friday night some friends came over, Sat spent the afternoon here..lol but went out to the movies with my friend. Today was lurking on here for awhile, straightened up the house & same friend is passing by again...it's her birthday so I am surprising her w/ a b-day cake!!
H texted me Friday..just a random one asking if I started working at the part time place yet. I said not yet and asked why and he replied "Oh just asking. Wanted to see how you liked it" then nothing since. Oh well trying to stay dim over here.
I still have a rental car and am waiting for the insurance to figure out if they are covering my car repairs...I am praying it is straightened out before the end of this week. I miss my car!!
Hi, glad you made the move...there are so many people over in newcomers that you might not get as much attention as you will over here since we all know you now.
Your weekend sounds fun. Even though the H didn't contact much the text on Friday was thoughtful. Little things are good. Stay dim and he'll be calling soon enough.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
I hope so Jen. I sure do hope so!! I try to be happy for the little gestures cause I figure if he really didn't care anymore he has no reason to keep in contact...no kids...no shared mortgage.
Thank so much for the support!! I am soooo glad I found this site.
You're right, if he didn't care then it'd be so easy for him to just completely walk away. You've been together for 11 years! I think he got really scared after the marriage...he could have realized at that point he was an adult with adult responsibilities...
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Hey Sep welcome to the board. My H did the same thing...when I was temp at this one job always asking if I had gone perm yet. It is their way of being distant, but still interested in what is going on.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
LoL Jen!! I know...actually the funny thing was that he was trying to pressure me to get prego fast and I put the breaks on it....I was a bit scared..just started a new job that had no disability insurance and we live in a small apartment. Oh well we'll never know what he was really thinking because I know he will never say.
Lola - Thank you!! I know I am going to have hope off of those little gestures for now and the longer that we continue even just the chit chat with out arguing, I'll take as improvement.
OMG!! just got text from him "I should have gone over, i'm h---y" Hmmmmm....So it has gone from once a month....to with in 2 weeks and now again within one week. I think he might be breaking..
Well well...you seem to be doing something right!!! Tell me your secret!!!
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
