They both have separate places. Today when ex dropped off the kids, I made sure I was not around. I think I have been too available for him. I did not want to see him anyway. Feeling very down about my sitch and my mother's illness. I never thought I would lose the two most important people in my life - my ex and mother.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11