Yeah, I see what you are saying. We don't live together but I think some of it will work.
Some of mine would be: don't talk to him in front of me, have him at the house, cellphone plan split, put the home phone in her name, split up our finances and being civil and disrespectful when there is an argument.
What did you use as consequences if she broke those. The going to the house would be kind of hard. I see where the rest are.
-Control: You cannot see anyone else while we're still married. Boundary: I cannot remain in a marriage when there is a third person in it.
I see where you are going with this. It is tempting since I do live in a black and white world.
Last edited by yenko69; 08/18/0812:15 AM.
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