I think I am heading to first

[yenko69]

-its okay to take a breather, and not talk to her for a while. You need to rest.-

Need to find a good way to tell her that. She has bad abandonment issues and self-esteem issues. Bad relationships and some sexual abuse as a kid. That is kind of hard to balance sometimes. She is good at turning things around to make it her fault. I hope IC helps her quit with the victim mentality.