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[yenko69]

You are right, I do need a break. Sometimes just winding down from work is hard enough. Right now I don't want to talk with her anymore. That will change soon when I have recharged.

-Your sitch is really hard, because there is an OM. But remember, jumping from one relationship to another does not solve problems, and your W will see that. You have to give her the ability to make her own mistakes. You cannot save her, you cannot correct her. You can just let her come to her own conclusions.-

That is true. I came to that realization awhile back. Just tough sometimes to see someone you love so messed up and realize the fall she will probably take. Hopefully it will not be to late to give her a hand up.