BND,

Yes I have been handeling it better. I was reading another poster, and I noticed she does the same thing as me. Overanalyze the already overanalyzed.

I just posted to her last night, one word.

STOP!

I think you are right. She doesn't care, and that is part of what is driving me nuts. That is what a spiteful teenager acts like.

She has always been angry. I think she took a good bit of that anger out on me already. Yep, the entire marriage.

You know I'm getting more comfortable with the notion. I'm better off without her.