The bad part is that when it does occur, you spin out of control and do things you shouldn't, and think things you shouldn't.
How do you know that she is trying to drive you nuts?
You give her far too much credit, honestly she probably doesn't care right now, that is why she does some of the things she does, because she really doesn't care anymore.
She is angry and hurt and fed up with the way things used to be, she has put her foot down, and she has reached her breaking point.
Give the Woman her space, let her vent. Listen to her words, validate them but don't patronize her. Let her see that she has something of value to share. Don't defend yourself.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
