Thanks guys. Actually i only use my maiden name email for junk anyway. He did this a while ago actually, we went bowling months ago and he typed my name on the board with my maiden name initials then said how's that? And I said fine but you've mistyped my name. I then anti-dbusted (in my defense I didn't know then) and said I'm married to you.
I'll reply tomorrow and say thanks. I will wait and see if he contacts me this week, I won't initiate I don't think. He did say he would contact me and so far he has stuck to that. If he doesn't by Thursday I'll re-assess as it is coming up to mortgage time again.