I'll ditto Mishka...I like the idea of deleting your maiden name account, all you have to do is let all the people who us your maiden name account know you're deleting it (they don't need to know why). Don't send your H the email tho and let him figure it out on his own.
Great idea Mishka
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*