Trying ... well if you can call it that, I guess.

[AliSuddenly]

Hey ABbey, thanks, I updated my sig, I hear what you're saying about the anger thing, I feel taht too now...especially as my ex has spent hours on the phone whingeing about how rubbish everything is for him, how crap his friends/Mum/brother are, how he has no money...you name it, I could top it, but he doesnt see it that way. The audicity of HIM to moan to ME right about how rubbish he feels. Try walking in my shoes.

I cant comprehend acting this way, I never have when a R has fallen apart. Sure you want to see them and get a hug off the ex, but you dont go whingeing about how rubbish you feel, especially if you left THEM. I assume your H doesnt moan though, although it sounds like he is trying to make out like he is all home alone-some. How does he expect you to respond to that !??

Thats great about the camping and real nice that another guy there has had a similiar experience and can really empathise with you. At least you dont have to paint a smile on and pretend like you're doing ok, if there are poeple around you who know how hard a journey it is.

I cleaned my house today and did 3 loads of washing too! Must have been a Piscean clear out day...

Ali xxx