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Re: is it really true? stella_k #1560101 08/16/08 07:33 PM
Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 1,316 A addie Member
addie Member A Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 1,316	((((((STELLA)))))) Although you know your H best, please don't assume what he may want to say to you. He may be feeling one way when he's with OW but may realize how much you mean to him when he sees you again. You are sounding so much stronger. Only a few days left. Hang in there, dear Stella! It's not over until YOU decide it's over. Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09 "Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz

Re: is it really true? addie #1560533 08/17/08 04:26 AM
Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 2,099 H happynow Member
happynow Member H Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 2,099	((((((STELLA))))))) I think you need these hugs as much as I do. Thank you so much for checking in on my thread! You are going thru so much right now. I'm like everyone else, don't assume what your H is thinking or might say. Think positive & be strong. You have come so far!!! Hang in there!!!

Re: is it really true? happynow #1560585 08/17/08 08:41 AM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 898 S stella_k OP Member
OP stella_k Member S Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 898	((((Addie and nlt)))), thank you and don't worry, I will stand fast $\:\)$ . I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08

Re: is it really true? stella_k #1560590 08/17/08 09:18 AM
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Kalni Member K Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 10,261	Stella, tried to read a teh last pages... First of all False Evidence Appearing Real that's what fear can be... You maybe wrong, you maybe right with your assumptions. I would suggest keep you eyes open but act as if things are going as planned months ago UNLESS he tells you otherwise. Stay strong K Me&H:42 S11&D10 Bomb 5/2007-Sep 11/2007 Reconc.November 2009

Re: is it really true? Kalni #1560612 08/17/08 12:11 PM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 898 S stella_k OP Member
OP stella_k Member S Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 898	Quote: False Evidence Appearing Real Kalni, I LOVE it, thanks :). (((((Sunshine))))) Last edited by stella_k; 08/17/08 12:13 PM. I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08

Re: is it really true? stella_k #1560852 08/17/08 07:59 PM
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OP stella_k Member S Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 898	Well, nothing from H today. Yesterday he said, he'd call and e-mail, and he didn't. I didn't try to call him either.He's with OW and I know it, and I'm not as detached as I thought I was. But I'm doing ok, no calling no cry. Once he's here, I'm going to ask him to postpone the R talk until D17 leaves for college. It will give me 4 days to DB and H will have 4 days to change his mind again, LOL. Tomorrow is another day . (((((everyone))))) I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08

Re: is it really true? stella_k #1561231 08/18/08 03:54 AM
Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 2,099 H happynow Member
happynow Member H Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 2,099	Hi Stella! I think that is very smart to give it some time to DB. How do you know he is with OW? Just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking about you. Good luck next week!!! Let us know when you can!! (((HUGS)))

Re: is it really true? happynow #1561423 08/18/08 12:27 PM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 898 S stella_k OP Member
OP stella_k Member S Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 898	Quote: How do you know he is with OW? Oh, I'm assuming, of course! I could have called him and find out but I'd thought better of it. Today I have knotty stomach again and I'm thinking whether I should call him or not. (((nlt))) 1 day. Well, 1.5. I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08

Re: is it really true? stella_k #1561447 08/18/08 12:53 PM
Joined: Apr 2008 Posts: 4,045 Virginia S StrgMarvelousWmn Member
StrgMarvelousWmn Member S Joined: Apr 2008 Posts: 4,045 Virginia	DO NOT CALL!!!! {{{{{Stella}}}}} SMW M40/H36 T16/M14 4K B2/08 S4/08 current Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7

Re: is it really true? StrgMarvelousWmn #1561503 08/18/08 02:00 PM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 898 S stella_k OP Member
OP stella_k Member S Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 898	Quote: DO NOT CALL!!!! ok, I won't. Thanks :)! (((SMW))) I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08

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