Maybe she is trying to date (too soon in my opinion). I didn't tell you you should sit around and be alone. Time to think and be alone is fine but it shouldn't be a permanent state. You need to let her go and you've been doing a great job so far. She may be very jealous of any females you're friends with and while thats her choice it's not healthy for either of you.
What would be healthier for you? To move into your own place closer to the city or to maybe bye your W out of the house you're in now?
Yep too soon , but that is her choice, i thought i was ready, but the reality is i just want some more friends, i have 3 friends out of hmmm 50 left from the M.. but u know what those other ones weren;t really my friends i guess.. anyways now i just want to meet new friends, i am good at this so..
Alone won't be a permanent state for me.. nope .. I am (not being what's the word?).. popular with the ladies, so i don't think that will be a problem.
I thought about buying my W out, i thought of several scenarios last night. I think the scenario i have in mind might take a couple months, if the house isn't sold by end of October, I will be ready financially to take on the home myself. I would rather be near downtown, than stuck in the burbs. The burbs is family land.. i will be single now, so i'd rather be close to work.. which is downtown.
Jen, I have let her go.. i think the phrase too much water under the bridge applies here.. she still cannot believe i have changed.. lol.. it's funny to see.. but .. i have to keep doing what i am doing, i feel and look better than i have in over a decade.. i will never go back to where i was..
