Another deputy I worked with today had to take a report across the street from W's house last night. She asked the neighbor whose truck was in the driveway and the neighbor said it was the guy my W is seeing. Guess he went to a wedding with her last night. Game over.
I agree more with you puppy. I have read some of your other posts and like your style. I have given it more thought this morning and I am moving on. If she comes back she does if not life goes on. I still would reconcile with her, I just need my self esteem and dignity back. She has pushed my boundries past what I find acceptable.
Time to pull away and let her live with her decisions. Still not sure if I am at the point of filing on her, so it is back to GAL without her in it.
As far as the kids both are step kids. I don't have any real right to say anything. I really don't talk to the older one, the younger one thinks of me as a dad. I will bring up my concerns though. I will also bring up the boundries and unacceptable behavior when the time is right.
For tonight I will just send her a text that something came up and can't make it and leave it at that.
I also agree now that I should link and move to infidelity later tonight or tomorrow. Although the people on this forum are great.
Last edited by yenko69; 08/17/0803:47 PM.
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