I think that your W is in a similar place to mine. Right now she's hurt by my actions in the past, and she's become defensive. She doesn't want to let down her guard with me and love me again, because she is in self protection mode. I think the love is still there, maybe just muted and pushed to the back burner because the pain is the most prevalent feeling she has right now.
H - 37 (me) W - 34 M - almost 8 years, Dated 6 LYBNILWY - 7/23/2008 W says nothing can save the M - 8/05/2008, 8/17/2008 W admits E attraction with OM - 8/05/2008 no kids - four cats Previous post: What to do
