Question for the Ladies Comments from the Gents

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Taking a day off so my brain is not tired prior to next weeks beat down.

Anyway BTs and AGs comments on crows, rock baskets, and rain probably ties in. Anyway when a guy braves the rocks and hooks up with a fine lady he does not display any neediness. You may call that confidence or whatever.

I think I want a piece of that.

I think that is the answer to the question when you ladies do the bull rush all together.

Works for married men?

I've heard all the excuses from the other women of married men. I quit dating a lady decades ago in a previous single life when I learned she also dated married men. A beautiful redhead but I listened to the excuses and thought of the wife at home with the kids. I could not excuse it.

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I left my X at home taking care of kids while I saved the world from itself and feeding my excitement rush. Talking to women about the difference I learned it does not make much difference if the mistress is another or a job or hobby. She does not get the acolades, medals, or praise.

Though infidelity is a often a dealbreaker being passionate toward a function reguardless how noble to the exclusion of one's family is equaly devestating and the excuses the person running off often delays but does not prevent the breakup.

Personally I do not excuse anyone elses (X, OM, whatever) actions but as DB and surviving dictates one needs to come to grips with their own shortcomings in order to perform 180s another DB tatic.

Once in a while yes people are victims of very selfish people I have seen a few here. Just about everyone myself included tries to paint a picture whereas we are the victim vs the bad STBX or X. Once you are a victim you have lost.

I say these things not from a pulpit as a knowledgable wise man but looking up from a fetal position looking at you with a black swollen eye and speaking through broken teeth. Being a victim and playing games thinking it's all about you does not work. And unlike USMC training courses you really do not get anything out of it. There is a time to give and receive sympathy but to continiously troll for someone giving you praise or pat your head is preventing one to actually search and work for solutions.
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