A quick update: He called last night to say goodnight to the girls and asked what we were doing. I told him that we were at a Pampered Chef party and then the I was going out. He asked if I was taking the girls and I said no that I got a sitter. He asked who the sitter was and I told him our friends Mom. I then asked him if that was ok. and he said of course I don't need to ask him that. He then asked where we were going so I told him. We were going to a club.
I felt so badgered with questions that I made a mistake and asked him what he was doing. He said that he was probably going to stay in and watch movies maybe with his 23yr old friend. I said to him oh I thought you had plans fri and sat and he said well it rained last night and that a group of them were suppose to go to an amusement park. It is obvious he is lying to me I am sure that the group includes the 21yr old "friend". I know this is why I am not supposed to ask and I have done such a good job not doing so. Do you think that I messed up b/c I put him on the spot to lie I guess.
I have read many posts and do feel there is hope for my situation but today I wonder if that is really true. Should I just give up and call it quits this is so very hard as you all know.
Me-30 H-30 M-6yrs T-14yrs Twin D's-2 Bomb-1/01/08 Left Home 2/01/08 (rented a room) Back Home 4/02/08 Left Home 5/08/08 (moved into own apt.) OW-21 5/29/08
