Also Dawn I read one of your posts abour R talk. I am not sure if you are still having these types of talks, but I would refrain for now. If your h initiates then you just listen attentively, but you don't need to respond at the moment and can say something like h I really appreciate your concerns on all of this, let me do some thinking and I will get back to you. It seems your h is baiting you into these discussions and then they go nowhere.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"