Treese, Spend as much time outdoors doing things today since it's beautiful there. Take the anger and frustration out on doing manual labor work today.
As for your anger, it's understandable and he knows you like a book. He knows that you are angry for the way he's handled all of this. I haven't seen one yet handle a separation/divorce in an adult manner. They are childish and very immature during this time and we are stuck holding the bag being the parent, the one that handles everything. They look to us to take care of the world while they are out exploring a world that they should have explored a long time ago. Believe me, you wouldn't want this man at home right now in the frame of mind he's in. You think you've got anger now? Well....it would be even worse if he was there 24/7.
A majority of them tend to come back and "sneak" things out of the house and you don't notice that they are missing until you need the item or think about it. I've never quite figured that one out, but I know I went through this until I changed the locks and others have mentioned it as well. You may need to do an "inventory" to see just exactly what is missing that should have stayed in the home.
Treese, I do hope you are feeling better soon. It's difficult when you have children to stay on an even keel when the spouse is floating around earth. BTW, your title of your thread is so true.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
