Guys remind me NOT to go to my Best GF house for awhile.
I decided to go over there yesterday, because the kids and I have been couped up in the house for two wks between being sick and me working, so I had to get them out. Headed over to my gf house (known her since hschool) anyways, her one son is borderline autistic. she also has a one year old daughter who is fine. anyways, this child who is 4 1/2 is just plain difficult (and Im being nice). She leans on the fact that hes aut. and that is why is really really mean to other children. I have done research on the matter, and they do say they have trouble, but this is WAY beyond it. I love her to death, but she is in total denial. He went after my S5 and through a hard toy at him in the face, he started crying (takes alot for my son to cry like that). Left a wonderful mark on his face. She didn't even put in time out. I was LIVID! He did not share at all and fought with both my kids the entire time. I had to watch them like a hawk in fear of them getting hurt by this kid. He tried to hurt my little one by my S5 stepped up and blocked him from doing it then pushed him down. S5 is VERY protective of his little brother, which i am SO VERY PROUD OF!! but get this, she doesn't alow him to say Poopie to another child because she considers that a bad word and will put pepper on his mouth for it, but won't do anything about him being violent to another kid... WTH????????
Someone explain this to me. So last night when we got home S5 was complaining about his neck hurting. He said when "a" hurt him with the toy, he fell backwards and hit the back of his neck.. NOW IM MAD AS HE$$. Im mad at her for not stepping up and punishing her kid. I can't believe it. I told H about it and he's really angry. Im supposed to have dinner with her on Friday, and I think im going to lay it on the line with her that there is more going on her then his disability. He doesn't listen and she is way too passive with him.
Sorry to long had to vent, when it comes to my kids im a wild animal
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
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