Karma. I do believe the best karma is those who are wrong GAL and being content. But I personally think it takes many years if ever for us to actually see the karma that explodes on someone who did us wrong.
Most of my friends here know I was married twice. I D'd my 1st H because my kids were in danger. He was in the military, but was abusing prescription drugs (hiding that fact from the MIL), and was the most womanizing narcissist I have ever met and I had to take them away for their safety. I left everything. the house, the furniture, the pension, just to get away. But I knew I had to.
So many years have passed. I remarried, X1 remarried. I had twins, X1 had twins. I divorced, X1 divorced. Seems like the same story right? The difference is that X1 has lost his 2nd set of children, cannot even see them without supervision, has lost his military pension to his X and kids, and his first 2 kids have nothing to do with him. Every now and then he calls my daughter and cries to her. She feels sorry for him. But she wishes she had a real live father. She loves him, but she doesn't see him.
He lost. I wish he had not, but he did. And he chose that for himself.
Karma, not really. I think when we all stand at the pearly gates, that's when karma exists. And then, we here on earth do not hear about it. But I do believe that bad things happen to good people and good things happen to bad people. It's how we live our lives that matters.
I have heard many people say "you may never know it when it comes back on them" LOL Well, I think that's a crock too. I chalk that one up to some people pn the board who say " Well a lot of the people here get back with thier spouse and just don't come back" LOL Yeah right. Anyway, HT it sounds to me like your EX has experienced more mental illness rather than Karma comming back on him, sounds like a pretty messed up person.
