If he is doing more with your daughter and seeing her more often, then that is reconnecting.
I feel for you that she asked about the girlfriend. My H used to do the exact same thing when he was living at home. Go outside to smoke and call grandma. yes, i do call her that as she is older than he is and yes, she is a grandma.
Your twins--you have never mentioned them but yes, I would say very spiritual. I bet it gave you the chills.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19