Ali... where's your latest thread? The link in your sig is a locked thread.

Yeah I didn't post too much because I kinda figured it was a pop up only... he was extremely friendly and even courteous and generous and thoughtful during the 2 times we saw each other. Offering to share food... buy extra candy so we can share etc, incase I changed my mind etc. Then he SLAMMED shut again. He had to drop something off here at my house (which I'm so so about... it's my sanctuary from him, if you know what I mean). Anyhoo... he got all huggy kissy with the critters, calling one of them "his boy" and how beautiful he was. (They're pure bred BIG cats). He was quite emotional with them and during the half hour or so he was here, his convo was chipper etc. There was a nice warm and tight hug good bye etc. I did a couple of extra "things" for him, got thank yous in email etc... then BANG. Slam! The last little "extra" thing I did was something really decent (work related) and not so much as a thank you that time. grrr.

Don't know where the parasite stands at the moment,.... I know he's out with different friends today. (Told me before he slammed shut that he wanted to go to this party etc etc... then gets chit chatty with me about his latest golf game and movies to buy on pay per view. *shrug*... indicating that he's home alone. ) We even shared some, "titt for tatt convos" ... and he did seem to indicate that he's alone, being doing activities that he used to do "by himself" before. (and someone reported back to me from the neighbourhood that he does spend time at home, alone)... so I dunno... maybe he's started to see the parasite for the useless drug twit she is. I know that doesn't necessarily mean he'll come running back to me... the MLC has him in teenager mode, so he'll be out running the streets for a while yet, I'd imagine.

I rather expected the slam shut. I don't call him. I let him do all the initiating. I dunno... I've got a few things up my sleeve but if those don't work, my next step is the db coach. And if not, I"m going to get through the rest of my courses and then go completely dark. End complete contact with him. He can by then get someone else to do the work I do for him. *shrug*

I feel anger setting in with me lately. We ALL just deserve to be treated better than this. They have NO bloody idea how much they've hurt us... and what's worse... they don't seem to even bother to care. Yeah... anger eh? \:\)

Abbey \:\)

Last edited by Abbey; 08/17/08 12:59 AM.
T:22, M:20
H:55 Me:45
H-OW PA: N/07
OW Jan08
Bomb:Feb/08
S: Apr/08
Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11
Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess.
Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.