August - 2 months to go till a year of separation

[pisces9]

Julia! ok- i think this is great. NO R talk, no pursuing behavior, just basic friendly chat and you let him take the lead on most everything.

this is the first step. of course it is weird. you have to repeat this a few times before he will open up. this is how you draw your H back to you.

you were pleasant, light and yourself.

just realize that it is what he needs. no pressure and just to BE with you.

remember- guys can BE with us and not talk and to them thats bonding- to us we have like 50 things in our heads that we want to talk about.

please re-read you post and look at all the positives.

dont doubt yourself. you did a great job!