Something lost and never seen....

[Sugar and Spice]

Well another thread locked. Really nothing new to report. Been layin' low and REALLY busy at work. The beginning of school starts our busy time.

Got over the whole CC thing. I was really pissy at first, but I just had to tell him (calmly) how it made me feel. I told him that it was just mean and that I couldn't believe that he HAD to use the card. That having it thrown in my face was rude and hurtful. That he OWED me more respect than that and how would he feel if I did the same to him? Once I got all of that out of my system then there was some talk about the Troll. I told him if he thought they could "make a go of it" then thats what he should do and just let me go. His reply was "anyone can make a go of it, but only certain people can make it." It was something like that, like he already knew they wouldn't make it...whatever. So my next comment was, "Ok, thats enough of that. There has been ENTIRELY too much drama for a Tuesday." and I moved on. He has made comments here and there, but I just either ignore them completely or dance around them. If there is an opportunity for a truth dart, then I take it, but I really try to avoid R talk.
Home today. Have to take the kids out to the mall to get a gift for DD best friends b-day and return some shirts MIL got DS. Have to take some shoes back she got DD and then Barnes and Noble, and the grocery store to stock up for school lunches. DD is supposed to go spend the night with her friend so maybe DS and I can hit a movie or something....

[girlfromipanema]

Hey, friend. I've been wondering about you. Glad things are pretty even for you. I hear Pineapple Express is really funny (but probably not appropriate for DS!). Maybe we should see it together. =)

Love ya, lovely.

[hopeful4her]

Hey Suga,

I have tried to tell GBG on a few occasions to try to see things from my point of view. To step outside and see from ANY different view.

I think they are just too dumb.

They can't think that hard. Could hurt themselves.

[fightingirish]

Sugar,

They just don't get it. Its like once they have crossed over they become brain dead.

I hope you have a uneventful good wkend.

((((sugar)))

[Sugar and Spice]

((((Sweet GFI, H4H, & Tal))))

WTF is it with these people? H JUST DOESN'T GET IT!!!! He calls last night to tell the kids goodnight from the cardroom...where hes just watching (WHATEVER!!!) So I was just messing with him, cuz I can and told him what a supportive boyfriend he was and laughed. Apparently he didn't find the humor...oh well. DD was supposed to go and spend the night with her little friend and they went out to dinner instead and he was talking about how much it sucked for her to get her heart broken by them (Huh? its what he does to her as well...hello pot, its me kettle, calling!) and I just don't know why but I said something to him about knowing what it was to have my heart broken and he actually had the f*cking unmitigated GALL to tell me he knows all about heartbreak! I said no, but you will one day...at least I hope you do. I was just feeling very mean spirited yesterday and his boo-hoo woe is me while hanging out with her just pissed me off! No to mention the whole exchange about him telling DD about the baby coming. I can't believe that he would even begin to think that I would even entertain that. I have to be there to pick up the pieces.
So he asked us to call him back last night after we went running and when DS did he was really short with him and its 3pm here and we haven't hear a word from him.

Why does this still bother me? Why do I wonder what they were up to? I hate this....

[kat727]

Cause sometimes you still pick up the rope. We have got to learn to walk away from the darn thing, they will stop playing the game if there isn't anyone to play with.

kat

[Puppy Dog Tails]

Shooga,

I'm afraid you're not going to get much sympathy from me on this one, because it looks to me like you're the one who picked up the rope and started the R talk, attempt-at-humor as it was, with this:

So I was just messing with him, cuz I can and told him what a supportive boyfriend he was and laughed.

. . . and again with:

I just don't know why but I said something to him about knowing what it was to have my heart broken

I said no, but you will one day...at least I hope you do.

I understand you feel like you need to respond, but you shouldn't, and you CERTAINLY shouldn't start it.

Is he an addicted, self-absorbed, weak pathetic ASS right now?? Yep. Absolutely. But you don't need to engage him, and when you do, you're going to sometimes get spew back.

Puppy

[karen43]

Yeah, we all need to drop the rope and keep it dropped. No picking it up!!! No matter what!!!

I don't know that they are stupid (well maybe some are) even though they act it; my theory is they can't think about what they are doing b/c they'd realize they're screwing up, making mistakes, etc. Might have to work on themselves or something? Easier to blame others when things goes wrong then look at yourself. At least that's how it is for my H; I mean he's a college-educated lawyer and people are always telling me they can't believe that (b/c he acts so dumb lately)!!!

Corey, whatcha doing now? I am planning on relaxing tonight--yeah! Well after I make a late dinner! We watched a netflix movie and ate so much we have to do a late one!!! Fun!!! Karen

[Maya44]

Hi Corey! You said what you said and now just go back to not giving a damn....at least act like you don't anyway, right?
I'm in no position to be giving advice since I need to do the same thing, but still. We all can help eachother thru our messed up H's thoughts.

[lost_in_space]

Hey (((Corey)))

Just checking in...