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LolaL #1560224 08/16/08 09:16 PM
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She did want kids. I told her I wasn't against having more children, but wasn't necessarily wanting to have more either. I was open to the idea of having more children.

I recall at the time that we discussed it, that my lack of enthusiasm didn't go over all that well. She didn't get mad, but you could tell that she was kind of let down.


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Floyd101 #1560228 08/16/08 09:18 PM
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I take it she doesn't have any, correct?


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LolaL #1560244 08/16/08 09:24 PM
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Correct. She got married while she was in college, but divorced shortly after she graduated. Was only married about a year.


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Floyd101 #1560266 08/16/08 09:31 PM
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Hmmm. Does OW mention kids to her? Although it seems to me he may be just a big kid himself and a bit too immature to have his own...


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LolaL #1560276 08/16/08 09:34 PM
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Yeah, they have discussed kids and had that planned out too, but I think she might be thinking the same thing you are now.


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Floyd101 #1560280 08/16/08 09:36 PM
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May is still a long way off. Plenty of time to DB. But my suggestion is that if you two do make it, you will have to bite the bullet and enthusiacly talk about kids...


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LolaL #1560294 08/16/08 09:42 PM
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Sorry to be mean...but won't he actually have to have sex with her to have kids????


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LolaL #1560295 08/16/08 09:43 PM
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Yeah, I think you are right.

The way she put her issues with her new guy, was that he is great verbally, he says a lot of nice things, but he isn't physically affectionate at all. She said it's nonexistant. She said that she hoped that it didn't last long.


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JenInVen #1560298 08/16/08 09:45 PM
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Originally Posted By: JenInVen
Sorry to be mean...but won't he actually have to have sex with her to have kids????


LOL, I brought that up a while back. When she was joking with me about my dad trying to set me up with a date, she said I needed to tell her when it was, so she could send me texts and give me a hard time. I said, "Um no, because I don't send you texts asking you how things are going with ol' limp ****." She laughed at that.


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JenInVen #1560305 08/16/08 09:48 PM
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Originally Posted By: JenInVen
Sorry to be mean...but won't he actually have to have sex with her to have kids????



ROFLMAO.....OMG the things we talk about!!!

Ummm, yes, he will have to actually break down and have sex.

Is it an ED problem, or doesn't he like girls?


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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