Not really. Her best friend is one that she leaned on to discuss how she had a hard time with me having children, and having to deal with my ex-wife on a daily basis. Her advice to her then was to move on if she didn't think she could deal iwth it. That's also why I'm pretty sure that she is telling her not to marry this guy. I think if I relax and let things pan out, her friend will give her the same advice without me asking her to.
I don't know how to contact her right now anyway, she just moved to Atlanta.
FLoyd The grass is always GREENER over the septic tank.