It might be a good idea for someone to tell her that, but I don't think it should come from me. I don't want to come across as persuing.
I think the reason she was so into him at first, was because he touched her love language by verbally telling her a lot of nice stuff. That's not something I am very good at, although I always tried. I just didn't do it often enough I guess. So I think she thought he was perfect at first and just happened to be a guy that gave her what she was craving. Other than that though, he doesn't seem to be much of a catch. I think she's slowly realizing that.
She is supposed to be marrying him on May 10th. They aren't formally engaged, but they have it planned out and have set that date, reserved the chapel, etc.
She did tell me on the phone earlier, that she just might sub around here through the school year and then decide what to do. It sounded to me like she was having second thoughts about the marriage. She also brought up the jobs at one of the local school systems, so she's definetly thinking a lot about sticking around for a while.
FLoyd The grass is always GREENER over the septic tank.
