Eternally ropey? Well, is that depression? He went back to the doctor Wednesday because he feels low and cant sleep. My sister said she was amazed he went to his doctor cos he cant sleep - is he that out of touch with himself...if you cant sleep, do relaxtion, drink milky drinks, confront the things in life that are keeping you awake, quit drinking, do exercise.. whats the doctor gonna say? (and he didnt go for sleeping pills).
Whats a compliant avoider? So you think he is done, but is just being nice?
But if he doesnt see how his actions have anything to do with my hurt and upset, why did he say...
H: I'm sorry, I'm really sorry M: Why do you keep saying sorry? H: Because I've upset you, I can hear it in your voice, I know I'm upsetting you
I've been debating phoning him back and having it out with him. If he's done, what difference does it make if I do? Like you say, let go, so why not have my say before I do so.
