Hey Lisa, was just thinking about you. So heres the convo from what I can recall and note that I kept plugging away (I'm NEVER like this) but got nowhere..sorry if its long, I'll do it in two halves.

M: You alright?
H: oh...alright, bit rough actually, dont feel very well, got a headache and stuff, tired, poorly. Nevermind hey.
M: I'm sorry to hear that, were you at the shops?
H: I had to go get some food and pills for my headache, I dont feel very good.
M: What is that physically, or mentally or bit of both?
H: Bit of both really, maybe I shouldnt have gone out last night. I feel a bit sicky, poorly tummy, havent eaten. I was ill yesterday I had an underlying sickiness all day, felt really bleugh.
M: But you were really busy though, at work
H: Yes, I was flat out which was good, took my mind off it.
- talked about his leaving do last night and he moaned about it.
H: I've been watching poorly tele, I've got a banging headache and just feel eugh, my stomachs gurgling, I haven't eaten today I just cant face it.
M: How have you got a bad tummy then?
H: I don't know just stressy stuff
M: Oh? Your bad tummy is cos of stress then, not physical?
H: Certainly physically I feel quite grim, shouldn't have gone out last night. I'm not going to do anything, just going to crash. I'm sorry, 'not being funny, I'm just not up to it. (I hadn't asked him to meet!)
M: Oh that's a shame as I was hoping to meet up with you
H: I'm really sorry, I just don't want to do anything, I'm not going to see anybody.
M: No?
H: No I don't think so, I'm just going to crash here.
M: Its just that I'm conscious that I haven't seen you for a while. (TRYING TO CONFRONT IT!)
H: I'm sorry I'm just not up to it that's all
M: Well, as long as thats the only reason?
H: Yes, I just feel crappy
M: Well then I’m sorry to put you on the spot…(interupts)
H: Don't worry about it, don't, stop it really (sounding very sweet), I'm just feeling a bit ropey that’s all, don’t apologise.
M: Well, as long as you're sure
H: No, honestly, its ok
M: But I haven’t seen you for the past few weekends
H: I know, I've had stuff on. I'm just not feeling too good, I definetly need to go and eat something.
M: I'm sorry if I am making you feel awkard, I was just hoping to see you I guess.
H: Sorry, I'm upsetting you, I just want to chill here. We need to do that tenancy thing as well, but I know that's not the point (sounding sweet, as in, that's not the only reason to meet)
M: Well if theres some other reason, or if you are annoyed at me
H: NO! Of course I’m not annoyed at you, you muppet (being sweet again, we joke about muppets for a bit). Of course I'm not, I just feel like being quiet and I do feel quite ropey. I guess I've been a bit mad the last few weeks, drinking a lot, its just the way things have happened.
(- we talked about his /weekends nights out and how he discussed drinking with the doctor who said it was ok for him to in moderation!)
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