Hi, Suzy,

I think my W is dragging her feet on filing because she'd really like me to file instead. That way she can place all the blame for the divorce as well as everything else squarely on me. She'd get to shed more crocodile tears and play up her "victim" status to her family and friends.

It doesn't matter -- the WAS always finds something to blame you with, no matter what.

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Hmm, my friend "L" bailed out again on seeing another movie. I was going to invite her and a couple of other people to go see The Dark Knight today but L's STBX was giving her trouble over custody of their child. And another friend, "M", was invited to go to the beach with some other friends.

I guess that means I really need to focus on my writing and other things more important than watching a movie.

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I noted that W has the Buick back. It's been missing for a couple of weeks -- S7 said that W let one of her "friends" borrow it. Very dubious. But now she has it back again, taking the boys out in it last night. This situation with this second vehicle stinks to high heaven.

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I hope everyone has a great afternoon today.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.