Have you thought of bringing up the letter you wrote? Not sure what anyone else might think but maybe you should mention it to her.
I mean maybe it just a stubborn game as in you're thinking "I'm not mentioning it if she doesn't" and she's thinking "I'm not mentioning it he doesn't" and on and on you go...
I am not being stubborn, i said i had no expectations in the letter. Ms Ladybug and others seemed to have said " don't mention it".. what are people's thoughts? I really think after I wrote that, it was the end for me, it took all the remaining feelings and put them on paper thus ending my "grief" and putting me into move on mode