Even if you don't go next week, he has a chance to miss you.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I hope you are not going to work this weekend. You need a break. Any chance of meeting with some friends or doing something fun? You can come over here and enjoy this hot and humid desert heat--ha ha!!
Glam: I am glad your husband is coming around so much. You are handling it all so well.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I hope you are not going to work this weekend. You need a break. Any chance of meeting with some friends or doing something fun? You can come over here and enjoy this hot and humid desert heat--ha ha!!
Glam: I am glad your husband is coming around so much. You are handling it all so well.
Steelers, No, not working this weekend. I have another busy week coming up so need the break. Not sure whether to call anyone or not to go out.
I wish I could come visit you. It wouldn't be in the summer time though. It'll have to be winter. Never been out your way before and would love to see it.
Thanks PH. I am going to go to the gym in a few min and continue to pray for my h. Now h is coming today which he typically comes every other sat and he was here last sat, but said see you tomorrow. Maybe with the job it has brightened his spirits.
We are just going to take the kids swimming and hanging out. My goal is continue to encourage my h with this new job and let him know he has my support.
I won't be joining him in Florida. Timing is not good. H wants to celebrate our anniversary another day. It's this coming Thur and h will be flying that day. Maybe we will talk today of what we should plan. I may suggest a night at a hotel if I am bold today. We will see, I don't want to be dissappointed with a rejection.
Have a good day PH.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
I think this new job is a Godsend. He feels like he is worth something and a load has been maybe lifted from his shoulders.
You are doing great with your interactions with him.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Ok h should be here around 1ish. I am going to try to get a few things cleaned up before he arrives. I am going to try my best to continue with my efforts that seem to be working.
I just sent h a congratulatory, encouraging e-mail regarding his new job. He may not see it today or respond, but at least he knows I am thinking of him and appreciate all that he has done lately.
I feel like I need to get deep into prayer tonight and maybe God will give me some insight into what direction my life is going.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
glam, I like your doal to encourage him and let him know about your support.
Pray about the anniversary celebration and be careful to still take it slowly so he doesn't get scared.
I agree with Steelers that the new job is doing wonders to your H. Keep praying even when things look good. I think like Charlyne said, our stand for our M is forever, even after our H comes home.
As for myself, right now I really miss my W. I haven't seen her in about two and half weeks and haven't talk to her in a week. I would like to see her or at least talk to her, but she acts like she doesn't want anything to do with me.
She finally moved out of living with those friends into an apartment by herself.
The last time I talked to her and her acting like she wasn't going to give me/us a chance like she is done. She did say that in the four months apart the reason she hasn't filed for divorce yet was because of her up bringing and her religious belief. I was thinking that if her religious belief has kept her from filing that her belief and God would bring her back to our marriage even though she says she is done.
I don't know about you other standers, but when I'm out and about and see a pretty face here or there it doesn't make me think that there is someone else better for me or that I want to be with them, but when I see a pretty girl or couple it just makes me miss my W and want to be with her,I just miss her so much. Sometimes being out and about hurts. I love my W with all my heart more than she knows, I just want to show her what all I have to give. I continue to stand and I pray a lot. I pray that against all odds and circumstances that are going on that God will work is will and restore our marriage to all that he wants it to be. I pray that God will make me into man and husband that he wants me to be as well as my W into the woman and wife that he wants her to be. I know that the pain is no fun but it does develop you as an individual and that it is all more than worth it for a restored marriage. I highly value my vows and covenant with God and my wife. I will do my best to keep to God's word and stand for our marriage.
