I wished W happy anniversary before she left on he r business supper. Actually I said happy ann. supper. She was truly surprised..totally forgot. In true WAW she shifted part of the blame to me for not setting anything up. She may have a point, I could have told her but I guess I was testing her. Well at least it proved to me where her priorities are. I am not up there yet. I will need to work on it. After SMW's "you make your own happiness", I decided to pretty much chill out and really concentrate on myself. W seems a little more aware of me. So I will continue to act as if and see what happens.