just checking on you. Anniversary? How weird would that be if he celebrated the anniversary of a marriage he did not honor? Celebrating what? Acknowledging what exactly? I haven't read what is going on, this anniversary thing got to me... Defending him? Yep, I've been doing that a lot. Had been doing that a lot. After a while the reality hit me. To be able to defend him, I needed him to "give me" something, anything... Not just a glimpse, a moment of his old self. Something that mattered. My stbxH, didn't. Don't compromise. Don't you think if he wanted "to win" you, he would know EXACTLY what to do? How hard would it be to make you have a change of heart? Well..., is he trying?
I maybe completely off, I am only reading the last few posts. Forgive me if I am. Stay strong K
