What I find interesting about all this is that I think when it comes to my work I am very in touch with my "wise mind". I can be scared or concerned about a situation, but my mind is always able to go through the process of identifying a solution for my issue. It is matters of the heart, however, where I don't seem to have the ability to tap into my wise mind...not even a little bit. I wonder if meditation would help. I keep trying to pray and then I find that I can't stay focused long enough to finish my prayer...my mind wonders like crazy.