Time for some honesty. Three months ago, you came here. You were in such bad shape you posted every 5 minutes, and analyzed every single thing your W said.
Now, you want us to believe that in 3 months you've grieved, gotten over your W (even though you've STILL never lived apart from her), completely changed, and are ready for some hot new model over a decade younger than you? I don't buy it. She's saying "sure, I know you're still married and still live with your W, but let's date". What? Sounds like a real keeper.
And from reading the last 9 pages of this thread, I don't think you do either. I was actually refreshing your old thread, it wasn't locked yet. Had no idea all this was going on.
You're trying REALLY, REALLY hard to convince everyone, which makes it even harder to believe. You strike me as a very emotional guy that makes split-second decisions, just like our old friend Fish. Here's the thread (remember, he had just moved to Piecing and convinced himself that his D was busted):
Do you believe a word he says? Where do you think he is now? Do some hard thinking buddy. Glad you're still posting here. As for the FB stuff, of course your W is suspicious. And she's right. And that should bother you a bit...
Hey Jon,
Yep 3 months ago, I was in rough shape, but i honestly think i am a very very different person than I was. 3 months of not having family around to hug me when the times were tough and rough, i believe it's made me very very strong.
Yes granted I haven't lived apart from W, but I look at her much differently than say even a month ago, day by day i grow stronger. The living apart thing may or may not have helped, we may as well be in different homes, because she spens her time here in 1 part of the house now, i spend mine in another. we chat, it's simple things.
As for the new girl. Not so much ready to move on with her, i may have thought i was, but "friends" is a good start, and she knows where i am, original plan was play some squash , hang out once in awhile, plan is back on track.
I have no plans to leave here, and u sort of have me pegged.. I am one for the " emotional decisions" I am trying to get away from that. I appreciate your honesty and will read this fish fellows posts (couldnt find them before when Jen mentioned them). What do you mean it should bother me that my W is suspicious?
I'll read the fish stuff tonight when i get home and will post my thoughts..
