Partner left after 9 yrs - looks the end is nigh

[mishka422]

((((((((Ali)))))))))))

I didn't realize until today that I didn't have your thread in my watched topics anymore! I just caught up and I have to say that you are sounding like you are coming to some conclusions.

IMO, you definitely need to tell him how you feel. Make sure you are phrasing your feelings as yours alone without blaming him for them. There is no point in putting him on the defensive. I wouldn't suggest that you lead into the conversation on this subject immediately though. Get that lease signed first!