well- i think if the book doesnt say when or how to do that - that is big red flag.
the DR has step by step guidelines to get everything back on track- then youc an use all those books...
i didnt ask this until last week -jokingly - and he didnt reply.
so i would say dont ask this until you are sure thigs are progessing forward.
imagine if she gets hit with this just when she is warming up to you and the idea of just spending more time with you? this could set her way back and you dont want that.
i truly think LRT mofified to being her best friend is the only way to be until you are pretty sure she wants to work on the M.
what do you think?
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