in several of the books i've read, (hope for the separated, save the marriage (even if you are the only one who wants to!)) it's said that the spouse reading the book should initiate contact with the other one. The Save the Marriage even goes as far as to ask your spouse "what would it take to for us to get back together?"
Not that i'm thinking of doing this...but when would it be a good time to do those things? and how does it fit with the principles preached by Michelle about pleading, pursing, etc.
Both books talk about improving yourself, changing the momentum of the relationship..etc.....but how do we work those ideas in?
ME:32 WAW:31 D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2 Together: 13 M:6 Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08 Sep legally: 6/18/08
"Tommorrow there'll be sunshine, and all this darkness past..." -Bruce Springsteen Land of Hope and Dreams
