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[pisces9]

i am so anxious this week....
i have had 2 annoying interactions... one with a bank teller who was so rude i was in shock... she told me to never come to her window again- i swear i knwo everyone else at the bank and they are all nice...my family co has a huge acct at this bank so i felt inclined to tell the manager...i never complain bc i dont want to cause a fuss but that was BS...then today i get a rude email from a place im taking classes where i asked for a partial refund..they said as an adult you should know when you can and cant make a class...etc. i just thought it was such a rude way of stating things. i feel like i am getting lessons right now on patience and calming myself.

my heart is beating so hard right now bc im pissed, mad, sad, etc

here is how i handled it:

i calmly told our private banker this incident over email and she was very recptive and nice. i complimented all the other telers.

and

i emailed the place im taking classes and stated my needs again. i almost wrote a rude email.

so i handled this way better than in the past where i would knee jerk react...

UGH- ife is a b!tch sometimes!