Jon...relax and breath. Remember, do not come on too strong. Try and detach just a bit, take a step back, and remember how you did it when you were first romancing your W. Be gentle, respectful, and no R talk at a!!! Flowers would be nice, but NOT RED ROSES. Maybe something simple, daisies, something like that. Just enjoy the time and go with the flow. If it feels wrong, either by actions or words, stay away from it. You have a beautiful DB opporunity, and you have been doing so great. Pretend you are a wave, just peacefully floating with the tide. Okay a little zen there... but as Lennon said whatever gets you through the night...
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..