Ya know, I try to have sympathy for her, because it is a really bad situation that I wouldn't wish on anyone. But she's making it very hard. Many months ago, she asked me what she should do. She doesn't need him, her life was so much better and drama free before him. I told her, get out while you can. I'm stuck because we will always be in each others lives because of the children. I love him and always will. And I will always take him back because of my love for him. Get out while you can. Listen to your gut, listen to your family and friends. Get out before it's too late. Her brother told her that her and I were going down the same path and it was going to end the same way. Her brother told her that!!!!
So she makes it very hard for me to have sympathy for her.


Me- 29
X - 30
M - 7.5 years
Final April 2009
S - 2005
D - 2007


Don't make someone a priority who only makes you an option.

A wise fish once said...Just keep swimming...Just keep swimming!