Thank you guys so much! I'm so glad ya'll are here for me to vent to!
I was thinking the same thing Corey.
A while back at our bbq when they both were here, she kept asking me all these questions about my pregnancies, how I found out and such. Nothing about the kids themselves, just about the pregnancies. So I told her, just cuz it kept her from talking about the current situation, which I did NOT want to talk about and she did. She even asked what I would do if I found out I was pg at the time. The next day, H actually thought I was pg and I dropped the bomb on her instead of him!
So she made a comment to him when she told she was that I got picked up and twirled around when I told him I was PG and she got left. wtf!? Who says something like that!?
So when he didn't go crawling back to her after 2 weeks like he normally does, she decides it's time for a miscarriage. That way he can come comfort her and he can see just how much she needs him. And now that she's supposedly not pg, things will be perfect between them.
And now she's supposedly having all these problems with it. the excess bleeding and such. I know it's a touchy subject, and I have never had one. But I know alot of people who have. And I know that no one is different. But the way she is describing it, is unlike anyone else's. That's why I have a hard time believing it. I delivered 2 children and not once did I 'ruin my sheets and mattress' afterwards. I took the precautions not too! I've been having my 'Aunt Flo' for many years now and the last time I bled thru to the sheets was in middle school!
AHHHH, ok, enough venting. It just bothers me so much that someone who was so adament about NOT having children, and so adament that she did NOT need him, and prided herself in her support group, I.E. family and friends, is now behaving worse than my 3 year old.


Me- 29
X - 30
M - 7.5 years
Final April 2009
S - 2005
D - 2007


Don't make someone a priority who only makes you an option.

A wise fish once said...Just keep swimming...Just keep swimming!