I found some yummy cheese!

[TwinDad]

when you are your W were in this phase was it weird too?

My sitch was a bit wierd. The hardest time for me was when we were together. We were still in our old house for a number of months before we sep. Most of the rollercoatering happened during that period and it was not until the end that I found DB and was able to start turning things around. It was too late to prevent the sep, but not too late to gain my confidence.

Since I took the best friend approach and was also used to doing most of the stuff around the house, I ended up helping her move and get things straightened out. She also needed me to take care of the kids several nights during her time with them and we had pre-planned together time with the kids. So even though we were sep we pretty much saw each other almost every day (not too unlike JeninVen). One day she said aren't we supposed to be separated. I said "if we are it sure is the wierdest one I ever heard about"

So the actual wierd part was when she started having me stay there overnight and it became a daily occurance and I still had the other house I was renting. There was about a month of that before I stopped renting the other house and got everything out of that. During that period, I didn't want to pressure her to have me give up the place, so there was always the possibility. In some respects it felt a little like limbo (though not in a bad sense....just in a money spending sense)

That was pretty much the weirdest part. There was also a period were it took us a little time to get back in the groove....if you know what I mean which was awkward