It is something we had been talking about for quite some time. It was actually one of our contentious issues. About a year and a half after the twins were born my W started pressuring me for another baby. I was initially against it for a few reasons (I was doing most of the work myself, concerns about how these children would react to a new addition, concern about myself having guilt for having to split my time with the two children I have with another...i.e. I was worried about giving them enough attention)
Over time My W started to help out a lot more and the kids had an opportunity to be around other smaller children and seemed to take to them so I felt better about that. I agreed to try for another and then everythig fell apart.
Now she is a great Mom, I feel we are doing better than we have done in a long time (bettern than before the kids were born in my opinion) and well I am getting old.....lol. We expect to go in a couple weeks. We had to use Invitro so it is a "planned" thing we have to do. She could always flip on this again....it is not like it hasn't happened before.....go with the flow....lol
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
