I think it is human nature to want what we can't have, so to speak. I know that your intention is to try and cool things down so you can give yourself some peace, and not to try using sex as a weapon. She won't view it that way either. But I do think she will wonder why, and it may increase her desire for you. She may feel sad, when that intimate connection is broken there is definitely a loss there. One thing I can say about my H is that he has never tried to be intimate with me during the S. I don't know if that is a good thing or a bad thing...
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
