Trixi trying to find moorage

[NikB]

One last post then I'll shush til you have time to reply.

I just saw this advice from Phoenixdeux posted to someone else, and thought it would be relevant for you too:

"Guys don't really go for the woman that they could have easily. You're an easy catch for him...at best a backup plan should the single life not work out. Detach a little more, be more dark (since you don't have a definite reason to keep in touch), and see if he starts to worry that you might be moving on without him. Do you hate the thought of him with someone else? Well, despite his words, he'll hate the thought of you with someone else, especially if you work towards being the most attractive you can be. Get your act together, be happy, be full of life...that's attractive."