What a great camping trip!!! I'm so happy for you, you deserve every bit of it. I don't think you need to over-think what you're doing, it sounds like you're already doing it. As long as you are happy with you, I think you'll continue to have the energy to give H what he needs over the long term.
Just take care of you, sweetie...:)
It is in the shelter of each other that people live.--Irish proverb
that is so sweet LOST! you are right....if he is coming back to me it is bc of how i have been and thats all i need to do. there is nothing more to DO...its just now i have to continue doing it forever! ha ha!
it is true that any issues that he brings to me i can handle better now. i hear anything he has to tell me. that allows him to feel safe and heard. and he will be able to tell me anything and i can take it as it comes. not predict what he may say and just think the best.
i used to get so nbervous about what bad things he had to say to me that i shut him down a lot.
so thats a great gift i have gotten from all this...among many other things!
Pisces M 31 H 32 M 7 yrs S 5/10 Beginning Contact! Vibes Hot Tub Cheese
So now that things are going well i am getting anxious and wanting to email/text/ or call everyday...yesterday i texted him and he didnt reply...so that was the first day we havent talked in about a week- we have been communicating a lot....
i know if i text again its not a huge deal but now i am a bit stuck. he works all weekend so i wont see him...so thats why im a bit edgy... also (sorry guys) im a little moody if ya know what i mean
so this is where this gets tricky...i dont want to push but maybe i can see if he wants to meet for coffee before work?
Pisces M 31 H 32 M 7 yrs S 5/10 Beginning Contact! Vibes Hot Tub Cheese
You are doing fine....experiment a little bit. He can always say no....just accept what ever his answer is don't have expectations. You could always arrange to have yourself be arrested by him.......
Have a great weekend
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
My thread got locked earlier in the week and haven't started a new one. I'm thinking about calling it "busted" since thingss are going very well and we are looking to go to the dr and try for another baby (or two if it is twins again.....lol)
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
It is something we had been talking about for quite some time. It was actually one of our contentious issues. About a year and a half after the twins were born my W started pressuring me for another baby. I was initially against it for a few reasons (I was doing most of the work myself, concerns about how these children would react to a new addition, concern about myself having guilt for having to split my time with the two children I have with another...i.e. I was worried about giving them enough attention)
Over time My W started to help out a lot more and the kids had an opportunity to be around other smaller children and seemed to take to them so I felt better about that. I agreed to try for another and then everythig fell apart.
Now she is a great Mom, I feel we are doing better than we have done in a long time (bettern than before the kids were born in my opinion) and well I am getting old.....lol. We expect to go in a couple weeks. We had to use Invitro so it is a "planned" thing we have to do. She could always flip on this again....it is not like it hasn't happened before.....go with the flow....lol
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
