Hey Floyd. I think you are taking the high road here by not letting her plans bother you much. (outwardly at least.)
It sounds like you have a lot of contact but I think you'd know if it was too much.(still be careful)
For me, it's the opposite. My W left primarily because we had fallen into a sexual rut and she wanted more. We were able to reconnect (and have great sex) but not before she was in the fog and under the allure of the OM.
When I hear of her feelings for you and her fears about her new R I think that she will not be happy with that life. I also think that she has to find that out for herself.
I thought it was a good idea to talk about positive things. If I wern't LRT I'd try to do the same.
Me:34 W:31 d's 5 & 10 M: 5 years, T: 8, Bomb1 3/8/08,#2:3/28/08 Asked 4 D:4/19/08, discovered PA 5/8/08,W moved out 6/30/08 W pregnant by OM: 2/17/08
