agree with the above, unless your d is adamant for some strange reason to stay more with her mom I think a good arrangement can be made between what your d supposedly wants and what you'd like to see. I agree with the fact that perhaps it's a toy/friend/activity that perhaps makes your d want to stay with mom more.
Let her know that you two can also do stuff she'd like that she does with mom.


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30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.